I do think it was a little quick to have him move back in. Especially if he is still going to be involved with the OW. Please remember that you should not be engaging in sexual activity with him until 100% sure without a shred of a doubt that he is BOTH not involved with OW any longer AND that he is disease free. Yes this means he must go get tested for STDs. Again, another requirement.
I get that living a part is expensive. However, I have seen a lot of situations on here and I can universally say that decisions in these situations based on money rarely, if ever, work out. Do not make decisions based on money. Do what is best for you, your son and your unborn child.
Personally, I would have liked for you to give it some time so you could be sure the A was over. This is why we suggest running big decisions by the board BEFORE making them to get different perspectives. LBSs,and LBWs in particular, are a little too quick to take a cheating spouse back just because he says the right things. There is one poster on here that continues to struggle because she puts her WAHs words over his actions. And even some of his less important actions over the big actions, like the fact that he lives with another woman. Learn from the mistakes of others!
