Hmm, I wonder if I was too supportive of the divorce today, too positive and not detached. The real estate agent was pressuring her on a bad deal. I explained why we shouldn't sign, and we should get a second opinion from a known agent who is a shark. Should I have just said do whatever you think is right? Or demonstrate support for the divorce and our position as I did? Or as LH19 suggested, get it over quickly, and encourage her to sign.
I think today, in our conversation about the real estate agent, was too positive, like we were partners. Not detached.
Josh what I want you to do is make decisions on what is best for you and the kids. If it is smart to sell than sell. If it is best to get a second opinion than get a second agent. Don't encourage her to do anything.
