And not to hi Jack, DV seems to have very healthy boundaries. I had mine when my D and OW wanted me to go to a hockey game with them. I couldn’t do it. So I sent my daughter, with her to go watch OUR sport, and even leant OW a team shirt because my D asked me too. Did it hurt me for them to share what my daughter and I have as our special thing. Yup. Did it make me happy she was able to bring my daughter to a her favorite sporting event? Yes.
