So H just text me about with a money question, as I waited to respond I found a $7500 charge for a lawyer.
It is about to get real now as you both have lawyers. Try to agree on the settlement bfore hand if possible to save on lawyer fees.
Originally Posted by Stella20
Then he called me, figured I had to answer as it was about money.
You never have to answer the phone. I would let it go to voicemail and get back to him when you are in a a more relaxing state.
Originally Posted by Stella20
Said he was meeting with his ATTY and need to know what we had as far as cash on hand.
Can he obtain this information on his own? Don't do the heavy lifting for him.
Originally Posted by Stella20
After I answered his questions, I tried to end the call, but he kept it going.
Do or do not there is no try. "Sorry hubby I have to run" "I am late for an appointment"
Originally Posted by Stella20
He must have wanted to talk for some reason.
Attempted manipulation.
Originally Posted by Stella20
Then he started talking to me about some people from his company, I know the history of these people, and what was going on with them. These where H's old bosses and they started there own company, have offered H a job a couple of times now. Talked about that his company will eventually change his pay as he is making too much money right now. More small talk about his company and what is going on with his work. Talked a bit about his mom and what is going on with her.
Poor baby.
Originally Posted by Stella20
Then he said he had to get back to work.
You should always end the call first. You are busy and got to run.
Originally Posted by Stella20
This is so hard, what a waste of a beautiful life.
It is hard but it will get easier. You will start to take of your rose colored glasses and see your H isn't the person you thought he was.
It is very important to understand the business side of this needs to be handle by what is in your best interest and will have zero effect on recon in the future.
