There is a temp order that my ATTY put together, that pissed of H, so he has now got his own ATTY. So waiting to see what the ATTYs come up with. My ATTY asked for 50% of H's income going back to December and that he pay all the bills for the house, and keep my insurace coverage till D is final. Also for a appraisal of the house and H's extensive sports memorabilia collection. H is trying to tell me that everything in the house is worth more than his collection. (not true) I do not think he understands what assets means. My kitchen table, towels, housewares, are not assets, his collection is a asset as it will increase in value as time goes by. I did not try to explain this to him and will let the ATTYs do that.
I love the strength inherent in this. You are showing, not telling him what divorce will look like and that you are a strong woman who will protect her interests.
