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Is "Intimacy & Desire" the one by Dr. David Schnarch? I'll pick that one up too
Yes. I had to get mine second hand as it is not printed anymore (at least where I live)
Adding to what wayfarer wrote. “ Just because something's not your fault doesn't mean it's not your responsibility. Our ability to act and change is proportional to the amount of responsibility we take on for ourselves.
Fault is past tense. Responsibility is present tense. Fault results from choices that have already been made. Responsibility results from the choices you’re currently making every second of every day. ”
The reason I recommend Love must be though was to help your orientation of where you are in the process. So now after reading it and given it doesn’t matter who’s at fault, what do you think you need to do to take responsibility for yourself in your CURRENT situation?
Answering the questions in wayfarers last paragraph is a good start.
Big ups for reading the book and starting to do the work needed.
