I can not tell him what he needs to do. What if he ask me what he needs to do??? How do I answer that question????
24 hour rule. Remember you do not have to give an answer immediately. Say, hmmm, that’s a really good question. l’d need to think about that.
If you want to prompt a bit, “What do you feel you need to do?”. However, I recommend not prompting H. Most MLCers are just looking for justification to blame and run. Anything and everything you say will be used against you. Stay pressure free. Kind and cordial. Give lots of time and space. Enough for him to choke on. H needs to feel what is it like to lose you.
