Originally Posted by Mach
I cant be her friend while separated, not healthy and sends wrong signals when we are around each other...
Makes sense. It does sound like you've been struggling with maintaining friend boundaries.

Originally Posted by Mach
My wife has some health issues, to where I would want to make sure she has good health plan to cover her illnesses.. Its just doing the right thing.. Research, and find a solid plan to ensure she is taken care of to her liking.
Props for being a good person, kind without expectations--you're no "Nice Guy(tm)".