Originally Posted by Apsara
I did not want to post, I think, also because I felt the site needs more successes, not failures like mine. I now realize that people can learn from failures better than successes, some of the time. And so long as I tried, I can exit with my head high, in honorable love. There must be a note of triumph in that, a whiff of the laurel wreath, no?


I consider your story a success in that you came through a tremendous ordeal that you didn't ask for, didn't want and remain hopeful with love in your heart. You became.

I would NEVER consider that a failure.