Quick note before I go to work. I also agree that you need to go to the party. It will be the hardest thing to do but you have to convince your mind that you are going to relax and have a good time, be pleasant, visit with other people you know. Try to come across that you are enjoying your self and just keep repeating to your self I am going to relax enjoy my self and just be patient.
When you go look your best and be confident. Don't chase her and act like you have to be with her every minute. Act like you have grown confident and I can to enjoy my self. I bet during the night she will wonder what is the change.
