I adopted the DB method for about a year and in fact have succeeded in keeping my WAW wife stay me. Sit has somewhat improved, with the usual ups and downs.
But I am increasingly frustrated by very rare occations of sexy time together and an obvious lack of interest in making the R work from W's side. The symptoms which Michelle descibes do apply. W has no desire hence no sex.
Seems like both persons need to do / learn sthg with the new book's methodology and I know she will not.
So I figure rather than keeping DBing or trying yet another method, I will call it quits and move out as soon as I have a new flat.
