Root,
Again thanks for the words of wisdom. It's getting a lot easier not to call him. I used to be such a wreck that I would try to find any reason to call him. Now the only time I call him is when it has something to do with the girls or he has mail. I haven't heard from him since Sunday. Our youngest daughter is trying out for school dance team. That is keeping us very busy. It seems so odd not having him at home to tell him how things are going with the tryouts. We also spent a couple of hours at the ER last night checking on one of her friends that passed out and hit her head. It seemed so strange not to call him and tell him about D's friend, but I really thought it might just seem like a ploy to call him. Keep in mind that this is a child that he has known for 11 years. It's so hard not having him to share these things with. I am keeping my distance from here. Any ideas that you wish you to share about your former situation are much appreciated. I also welcome idea from anyone.




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon