Thanks Michelle. It's always good to get the story from you directly. I confirmed that she's not ready for touch. I put my hand out as she went by and you'd have thought I was holding out a venemous snake - she veered out of the way. So much for that! I did ask what her 'love language' is (not in so many words) but her reply was that I didn't respect her and that I'd have to figure out what she wanted (it might be too late she adds) by myself! Bummer. No change there since I first posted. Is there a clue here. Do MLC'ers not want to participate in rebuilding their marriage?

Thanks again, Michelle.

Andyn