Michelle:

This guy is keen to reconnect with his W and, as I posted before, will buy the book!

I have a couple of questions; My wife always loved to be touched. I always agreed to tickle her, feet, hands, arms etc. Of course, this could always become the prelude to sex, but many times (I didn't understand) was 'just touching'. She doesn't want me to touch her now.
Is this something I can work on? She seems so angry at me for everything and I don't currently see a way to reconnect physically.

I have purchased the KLA tapes and wait to hear if they help, as a prelude to being prepared for the time I can touch her, kiss her and then........

She is so good to be close to and we did spend many nights that way, just not so much in the past year. We don't share a bed currently and she moves away if I'm close by her at home.

My other question is related, She is in the 3rd or 4th stage of MLC. I didn't see anything in Hearts Blessing's posts that give me hope that this reconnection can happen yet. Would you agree? I guess since my wife enjoys physical contact, she criticized me for not wanting to cuddle and hold hands in the past (o.K., so I didn't always) is there a way to do this? It feels like I have to wait until she 'shows' me a sign. I did get to kiss her cheek on Christmas Eve and during the day