Yes there is still hope...how much pretty depends upon you...you are setting yourself up for emotional breakdowns...
putting mail in his chair and checking to see if has been removed...gee, ya think maybe he is on to you and doesn't want to feel controlled so he is leaving it there???
Ya suppose he might be off BY HIMSELF doing some soul searching....like you did by yourself???
Maybe he feels if there was a real emergency you would call his cell phone (don't dare test this out unless there is a REAL emergency)...he might be testing you period...seeing if he can break you into pursuing him since you withdrew during your Vegas trip....this is a good thing!!!
Why would they hide one car...from who??? You???...excuse me but he isn't hiding the A or OW so why would he hide a car???
Maybe he needed a haircut???...Maybe he went out of town to meet some clients, friends, sabatical...whatever...it shouldn't be of this much concern to you....
He felt safe enough to come home...even if he stayed on the couch...at least you KNOW where he was that night!!!
You need to stop focusing on his actions and just mind your own...you are in no place to be giving your energy away...or any power that you might have...as long as you do you will continue to stall in this hellish place of personal misery...and you will continue to jeapordize your ability to DB in a positive manner.
Tam...relax...meditate on positives...avoid negatives...watch funny shows...avoid relationship shows or topics...you have to get control of yourself before you lose it all...
