I know, I know, HeartScared - NO SNOOPING. And I keep telling myself that and then backsliding, but I don't backslide as much as I used to.

I know he is out of town somewhere, because we only have two job sites he could be at, and he's been at neither of those. He also hasn't been to our office AT ALL since I've been back (I left some bills on his chair that are still there). AND his suitcase that he "brought to the office to live out of" after we got home from his parents' house is no longer at the office.... He's gone somewhere; you're right that I just don't know where. And it's possible that they took both cars and parked one somewhere... who knows. I freaked out today wondering if she took him to meet her parents or something... (Do you think he/she could stomach that??? - Ugh...) I'm sure it's much less than I'm making it out to be. I guess I'm just hurt because he didn't even tell me (even for the sake of our business) that he was going to be gone a few days. At least I had the courtesy to do that.

So no phone calls from him or e-mails since Saturday night - when he got his hair cut! It all adds up... But, on the flip side, maybe he knew that I was doing some soul searching and decided he'd better do that, too, and purposely planned a trip with her to spend more time with her??? Or maybe he is even by himself somewhere - I just don't know where it would be...

Anyway, I've calmed down in the last few hours or so and have actually gotten a little bit of work done (I'm at HOME)...

I know I keep asking you all this and you keep telling me the same thing, but do you still think that there is hope for our M? I'm asking you this based on the signs he has given and the things he has done...

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I wanted to say I thought it was a good sign your H went to your home the other night. That is a sign that things between him and OW are not as tight as you may think they are.

Not so sure about this. Sure, I'm elated that he came home, but he slept on the couch downstairs and didn't say one word to me. I think the only reason he came home was because he was too tired and/or thought he had too much to drink to drive the distance to her house (our house was much closer to where we were coming from). And, it wasn't like he went up to our bed and wanted to be with me or anything - just laid out on the couch, and then the next day took his same nice clothes that he wore the night before with him.... Maybe for this trip???? Oh, doesn't the mind play tricks on us...