Cl Thank you so much for the advice. You are right I need to get better at the detachment. You are also right about being good friends. It is so hard because my husband calls me and acts like we are like brothers and sisters or best friends. He acts like there is nothing wrong. Then he goes and sees her. I have to admit that I have come a long way. I was just on 2940 thread and how I was obsessed with H and OW 24 hours a day. It was scary what you let yourself become. Even today when my SIL called and said the OW sent her daughter to go live with her dad. I'm sure she did it so she can spend more time with H. She has tried to be super mom since seeing him. What I was saying (see sometimes I still go off on her. She is such a manipulating person and its hard to think he would be with her) but I don't completely go berserk!!!! Which is good.
I am starting to think hey I have to think about what is the best for me and the boys. I even thought today at one time maybe I will enjoy my self. Like I told 2940 I have to think POSITIVE. Being with someone for 25 years old habits are hard to break. Thank you for taking the time to help me. I think I will go to bed now. I've had a long day and all of sudden I am exhasted.
