Giving yourself an ultimatum

[charlie_girl]

Breton, does your husband still live with you? I am no expert by any means, but if he does it is not unreasonable to set your boundary as one that he cannot have OW and still live at home? There are arguements for and against separation, in my case my husbands A was over, but once the truth came out about it we mutually agreed to a trial separation, in fact I helped him find his apt, helped him move, buy furniture etc. We both needed the space and time apart to try and heal from this.