Piecing can be hardly than living apart. A lot of the piecers are so thrilled to have their spouses back but, in reality, the pressure is even more than it was when they weren't there.
I never had a WAS but it has been hell living through all the emotions of the roller coaster and I haven't got off that ride yet (and you would think I would be seasoned, being it is my second time around with this crap)
He's home, that is the main thing. But, you have to stop persuing him - keep your distance and give the man some space. Maybe he feels like things are closing in on him and he's being pushed into doing things too quickly. He came back - enjoy that part of it and try to GAL and do other things to keep you and your mind busy
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)