All right, all very good points....

I have to add, though, that there are practical considerations as well as matters of boundaries. I earn more and take care of financial considerations, for example.

At the 6-month point I may want to consider asking H to move out as I do not want to finance his A. I feel as if I am maybe being too understanding.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D