Giving yourself an ultimatum

[forward]

I guess that's true, but at the same time, I am thinking of a mile marker of sorts. A reason to assess. Maybe there is no map, but at least I can look at how long I've been traveling and how far I went.

I am picking October because it will be about 1 year from ILYBINILWY, 6 months since OW, and also because that is just in advance of the holidays. I am going to consider what is going on and where things are at that time.