I have made some personal adjustments in myself that I am very proud of. I was sometimes taken in by being petty, about some things. H used to really push my buttons, and I was angrily stomping around the house. I was also left to do much of the discipline with the girls. Now that part of my life is gone. I am so much more patient and kind. I teach Kindergarten, and I truly am an understanding teacher, and work with kids and their parents, not trying to be fair, but do what is right for each child. So this crisis has been good for me to. I will always have that. But I still whine alot! I wine too! Gotta take a few swings on the pole. Cheers, HOlly
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.