Holly,

MAD, oh I'm mad alright but not at you. I just get so tired and angry that such good people are put in this position. How many times have you read someones post and immediately you feel connected and involved because you can see what's in their heart. Shouldn't this be a no-brainer for the person who has shared a life with them. I was once told and now I firmly believe that we remind our spouses of the strength and integrity that they feel they are missing. Kind of ironic that these walkaways would go out and purposely do things to fulfill their destiny.

Don't over think this, you're doing just fine!

Love,
Bethie

Whine?? Ah I don't think so. Your talking to the Queen of the whiners!