Giving yourself an ultimatum

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I am curious to know if anyone is giving themselves an ultimatum.

For example, I am looking to see where things are October of this year. That would make it 8+ months w/OW and about 2.5 years into the whole deal (with bomb of ILYBINILWY in October of 2006).

I haven't decided what to do at that point. But I consider October of this year to be an important point in this journey where I will do some evaluating.