Please tell me there is a happy ending!?!?!

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R2,
GREAT, WONDERFUL, FABULOUS, what other words can I say to tell you how happy I am for you! Yes XH broke the NC first... so that is a big step...

As for this

XH: Hey, I'm surprised it's hitting me more than you
XH: or I deal with it worse
XH: either way
XH: it is what it is

I would have to say that it is GREAT DB'ing on your part. listening and venting here instead of trying to do it to your XH or get it from him. You are on the right path. You just need to stay on that path.

Take it 1 day at a time... and enjoy it!!!
gotta run... chat more later