The view is great!

[Holly06]

Beth,
Kept getting interupted as I tried to reply.
Hey, I did not even look to see who posted. I did not feel dissed at all, rather glad someone is watching out for me.
I have been rather hopeful lately.
My situation is long and drawn out (who's isn't?) and I am not going into all the details, but I really think things are moving in the right direction.
My DB coach Joanne will second that I believe.
I also believe since TJ and I have a physical distance, and the girls are adults, that he is not getting the best of both worlds. We hardly have any contact. When we do, it is lovely. We get along great. No spewing. No guilt. Friends.
Now I do have a D coming. I am not afraid of it. It will not be unexpected or change my position. It is not the end of the road for me. I believe that with all my heart.
Let him go.
Let him chose me all over again.
So to see this in print, was a little thoughtprovoking. Not crushing, not hurtful, but it made me question my Pollyanna viewpoint. Yes. I admit it. I recognize it. I am prepared. I know the risks.
I just needed reassurance that I am still not reading too much into this. That is it.
If others have stuck their hand out and got slapped, I am sorry. I so admire alllllllll who are here, on all the forums. I think we all wish for the best. We will all come out of this OK.
Feel free to get in my business. I consider it a blessing, and always welcome. I chose to see it as love and concern, with a little reality thrown in.
You are wonderful Beth. As are all your friends. I am a happy lady tonight to have you and yours in my corner.
Cheers
Holly