well hello fellow readers. Todays report contains affirmations for the ideas of "inspired julie". She suggested the "rubber band" trial. Pull back and maybe spouse would move toward me. Tried it. Left without a word to spouse last night and went out to the bookstore for 90 min. (you will recall she disappeared on me the night before and was out until god knows when) I of course felt like a heel for leaving without common courtesy but I DID IT!!!

got home, went and lay down and began reading my book and who should come in and chat? hmmmmmmmm...rubber band anyone? The insanity continues.

Last week spouse was ticked and declared she was changing her schedule and would not be going to class with me every Tuesday night. Well, it's Tuesday and guess where she's going tonight? To class. So am I. hmmmmmmmmmmm

I must file this info away: she gets mad, spews and then backs down. Normal human behavior. So much of her behavior is rather odd that when something normal happens I have to be made aware of it.

I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it.
Stubby