Charlie

First I am sorry you are here but you have come to a great place. I am glad that you started posting.

Second do not send the letter.

Since you have been lurking awhile then I assume you have read the mlc resources at the top of the page. IT is a good place to start.

Give your h the time and space he needs right now. They need to be alone so they can process things.

Concentrate on yourself and your children. You cannot do anything for your h so work on yourself instead.

You already know that this is a long and bumpy ride.