I thought I'd keep my thread going and update my progress here.
Since the last post I went on Vacation, fought, tried to take back my bed and found myself right back in the other room again.
From other post: AmyC, Your advice was pretty right on. I had a feeling it might go that way and my daughter changed everything. I took her to bed and she still sleeps with us..her. Shes 10 but the last 3 years have screwed her up. Anyway, she asked if i was going to sleep in there and was mom going to sleep in her room? I never thought about her in my claim. What's surprising is she wanted to sleep with her mom and not me. As she put it she is used to it and doesnt want to hurt my feelings or want Mom/Dad to fight. I never thought about it like that. It sucks. Anyway, I gave in to her and told her I will sleep in her room by myself instead. Once my W got home I got up and slipped into the other bed never even seeing my W.
Last night my W was in a good mood. She had the day off and despite running around doing errands she was happy. Of course she complained about it but....MLC.
Anyway, she bought some new shirts and tried them on for her GF and I. Mostly for GF but I told her how great she looked in them. She seemed to respond to that and was kind of playful. Later i said goodnight and walked away to the basement. Inside i wanted to hug her but held back. I think she might have wanted to cause she kind of turned to say goodnight but I made it quick. I dont want to seem needy toward her. Its tough cause she looks really good was shes happy.
