I said that to him when I asked him to put it in the mail before he left. I said I had bills that needed to be paid before I left for my vacation. Obviously it went in one ear and out the other.
I will say it nicely, but I don't want him to think I am being a nag about it. My GF said that if I don't say anything he will think he I am a doormat and he can just do whatever he wants.
I hate all this sh*t! I feel this sadness in the pit of my stomach whenever I think about the way H treats me. The love for me he once had is gone- I am not a priority in his life anymore. I want to figure out a way to change this- so H is chasing me and wanting me in his life....