I popped in over here, since I was checking to see what my friend RBL was up to.
I'm quoting her here:
Yes r, can you confirm if he hit you???
RBL, maybe I'm mistaken, but I didn't see a lot of room for ambiguity in her post.
So, let me get all high and mighty for a minute here.
If he hit you, and I'm going out on a limb to say he did...
This is completely unacceptable behavior. I don't know the whole story here, I gather you had an A. But, it doesn't matter what you did. A man doesn't hit a woman. Period. (shouldn't hit anybody else either, for that matter).
Get away from him, and stay away. I gather by briefly checking some of your other posts, that he's got a bit of a temper?
Men find it hard to forgive unfortunately....or take longer to forgive.
Well, and he's not going down the path of forgiving if he's going to use her as a bloody punching bag.
RBL, I'll never forget the photo I saw of Emily (Emily21, I think?). Her H (bf, I've forgotten the exact details) left her, got OW pregnant, they got in a fight and he gave her a black eye. She posted a photo of herself here. It was just excruciating to look at.
Within, oh, let's say, a month, she was back together with him.
That was just as excruciating. I wonder how long it was before he did it again...
r, no matter what, you don't deserve to be the focal point for any physical violence from him. Don't forget that.
If I've jumped the gun here, my apologies, but I have a hard time believing that I did. And I have a real hard time putting up with men who hit their wives, gfs.....
And to quote you:
i just have to take all that he throws at me?....
Do you? I don't think so. Especially not if he's going to be physically abusive.
Take care, update us soon. I hope I'm wrong here.
S_O_T_S aka: Stoic_On_The_Surface
I can't quite get there cause my heart's forsaken me - KT Tunstall
