I am glad that you think I am doing the right thing. I keep seeing posts on here of people playing games and thinking "Why?" I am trying to let go of control but I can't not be nice to him.

I think I am handling things the right way. I just need to be patient (x 1 million), remember to hope, and stop thinking about things all the time. I also have to stop reading a post and thinking "Oh no, when will H decide to file or spew at me." I am only borrowing trouble. I need to deal with today and deal with future problems when they come.


Me45 H45 D13 S10 together-23 years married-21 years
MLC Divorced 10/3/07
Married to a wonderful new man.