Gotta run, but real quick... My Mom and Dad are very protective of me - I am their "baby." They also worry a lot, just like me. 1.) If I tell them something is wrong, they will worry, and I don't want to cause turmoil in THEIR lives. 2.) If I don't tell them the WHOLE truth about what is going on, they will worry, too. And, if I start talking about it, I probably won't be ABLE to not tell the whole truth. 3.) WHEN we get through this, they will have to heal and forgive H, too. If they never know/knew about, it spares them both the pain now and the pain when we reconcile....
