need a little encouragement

[RedHeadWife]

I would say no R talk. Since my H has "come around" this last time, I haven't brought up R and it seems like this time it's working. No pressure; I just act like everything is wonderful and nothing's wrong. Easier said than done and my H is still in the home, but I would say give him time. By you asking if anything is wrong, etc., you are kind of bugging him maybe? Putting pressure on him. He needs to make the decision himself. That's just my take on it. Like I said, easier said than done, but I wouldn't bring anything up. Just go on - taking it day by day.