From what I have read, it seems that your opinion is that we should be nice and honest and stop all the little manipulation games. It seems like so many of the DR techniques are a bit manipulative. Do you think that these techniques really are not applicable for a MLC depressed spouse and really being nice and GAL while waiting is the way to go? This is what I have tried to do. Do you think they see us as pursueing or needy if we are warm to them? It seems like a hard line to define.
Me45 H45 D13 S10 together-23 years married-21 years MLC Divorced 10/3/07 Married to a wonderful new man.