EA turned PA, Wife on the fence

[Heartbroken]

When my H told me the truth 1/6/7 I think he was surprised that I forgave him on the spot and he felt he had to give OW up and try on us. What I did not know then was H gave her up for less than two weeks. They did not see each other but they were back to talking every day/eve. H was fooling himself that he was over her (and fooling me). See my sitch - it seems to have happened so fast yet I was reading these boards from Aug - Feb and did not actually post until 2/9 when I really needed true help. DB'ing can work - but each sitch has its own timeline! Start reading and listening to others out here - we all have been there and you can learn from our mistakes and not waste time going down the wrong paths (which I did a lot)...