I am lucky, actually b/c we still share money, but even when we stop, the gov't here will actually garnishee the amt of child support directly off his paycheque and do a direct deposit to me. Thank goodness I won't have to go through all that bs. Even though my H is actually behaving well, he is very absent-minded.

Love to you, K--we are in such a similar place, as are so many others.

PS. to MTN--I liked what you said about the truth. yeah, H actually told me the truth about something today and I was so happy, but you're right--it's actually normal behaviour for normal human beings. Huh--I've kind of forgotten what that's like.


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