I have to agree w/ Running! Please, please don't push H into jumping right back in and expecting him to be 100% right away. Just continue to love him patiently, but no R talk, no expectations and he will come around. Just be happy, play w/ the kids, etc. Also, do things for you & H, rent movies (comedies) & stay up after kids go to bed. TALK to him about his day, his interests. Be that woman he wouldn't want to give up! The old "I don't love you that way" thing was a long time in coming (in my sitch too!) so it will take H time to get that back.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
