BI,
I feel for ya! It's very depressing to add up the cost of a M breakup. It's staggering. And I know how you feel about
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If it were just the marriage, or just the finances, or just the job thing, but it's everything. Everything.
You've got a huge weight on your shoulders.

Just thinking outloud here but I'm a faithful guy and I've got to believe there's a reason and a purpose why you've been given this load. Is this financial struggle actually, maybe keeping the two of you together? Are you learning anything from it? Do you think your H is learning? Are you afraid? How is the fear affecting your judgement, outlook and attitude? Could things be worse?

I know you're venting, and that's a good thing. I also know you'll bounce back, and be joyful for the blessings you have. I'm praying right now that your H be given a career opportunity that matches his interests.

Hang in there girl!

Love,

COG

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