no, I am not being vindictive at all. H is b/c he got screwed the first time...I am actually trying my best to think of the kids but he is also taking advantage of me. Part of me wants to tell him you are taking the girls based on what we decided not when it is convenient...the other part of me knows when they are with him he would rather be doing something else...OW.....so I would rather keep them because I think it is in their best interest. This is all going too fast for me...
