Keep Db'ing from this point on. My H told me he "didn't love me in that way anymore" numerous times along with all sorts of other nasty things, but I just kept loving him. I also learned that patience is the key. Hard, but worth it. I think a big part of H's staying is due to our boys (3 under the age of 7), however, he's still here and I'm just still loving him and showing him a woman he wouldn't want to leave. Show her a man she wouldn't want to lose nor leave!! Be supportive, loving, compassionate, loving and just show her that you're there no matter what, just no pressure on her!!


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10