Fearless: Also take the twists out of your appreciation of the marriage.
Chrome: That is difficult.
I hate to break it to you but the areas where someone says "this is difficult" are usually the areas that need the most work. But you knew that already didn't you???
Seriously, I do believe it is important to recognize and appreciate good things in your life, job, marriage, etc. Concentrating on the positives/strengths is where you can gain the most benefit.
Bear with me a little because I am listening to the "Go, Put your strengths to work" CDs and it's reminding me that besides work this is a useful tool in life. Focus on what's good and right and figure out how to apply those things more often. (This is not a simplistic ignoring of issues or problems, not burying your head in the sand, and is especially not about being unrealistic)
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus
