Not being available all of the time. I am not one for head games, so do not do that but there are times you can let the calls go to voice mail. You can do little things and make some plans for yourself. I know you would rather be with your wife but it is important you fight the urge to jump each time you hear her voice.
Hope you said Thank you for the palm. Yes that was very kind of her.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.