Do not be smothering but keep the word gentle in mind.
Help me out with defining smothering. Is calling or texting her everyday to see how see is smothering? Is making plans a few days in advance smothering?
All this stuff she doesn't seem to mind, everytime I mention getting together she never gives me a hard time.
Should I just go dark for awhile and have her intiate all contact?
Her LL is quality time, one of the reasons she left is because she felt I did not make her a priority. I almost feel if I don't stay on top of her she will think I am not interested.