Aud, You do not need to e-mail him to tell him that the kids are doing alright. Stop. If he wanted to know he would have contacted you. Stay dark and do not initiate any conversation. If he calls of TM's you can either answer it or not you choice. However, if you answer keep it short and sweer. Now it is his job to come back to you. You have tried to be there and he keeps abusing the trust and care that you have been trying to provide. Do not let him continue to do this.
On another note. You definitely need to talk to a L and find out your options. Find the best one in twon and talk to them. Worst thing that happens out of it is that your H will not be able to use that ATTY if he decides to file later down the line (not saying that is going to happen by the way).
Either way stay strong and we are all pulling for you, O
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
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