HB, you already know that you are helping with my situation as (hopefully) my situation will follow yours soon. I think your postings are enlightening many more people on this board with lots of them not posting.
H coming over at 5am really is GREAT!!! I think at this time it is SO difficult to find a balance between getting too clingy and yet being nice to h.
I know what you mean by h not thinking about your feelings. I feel that way also. I always ask him how's his day, etc. Never did he ask me what I did during the day. Given I am not working now I could have been anywhere, doing anything. Doesn't he care? Of course, my h is not even back yet so I guess this is to be expected. Still feel sad though.
Take care and keep this DB going. You go girl!!!
M 38, H 38, two sons Met 20 years ago Married 13 years Bomb: Oct, 2006 DB: Started in Dec, 2006 H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007 H back home and piecing?