Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
D22 got an email from TJ. The biopsy is inconclusive, and the sample is being sent to U of Michigan for further analysis. Good news or bad? I do not know. I have not received an email or text or call. I guess that is to be expected. I think I will hear Monday morning. I will act as if I do not know. No problem.
I too have done a fast and a prayer. I only do 1 day at a time. 24 hours. Not a week. It does seem to make a difference.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
I have been praying for you and your family. I know it helps because it did with my S now 32. S32 still has to have more chemo but I talked to MIL today because S32 and family visited them on their vacation last week. MIL said S32 look good, color is good, sounds good, too. She said he is weak but that can be expected with the chemo he has already been through.
I just have this feeling that TJ will contact you during the week when he is free of the watchful eye of OW. This might be the nudge he needs to really take a long look at his choices.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
I am so glad about your son. I have witnessed this cancer in young men, and the prognosis is very good. The one young man was only 20, and a good friend of our family, without adequate health insurance. He is also future SIL best friend. He and my daughter were childhood playmates. He is fine now.
Have about 3 more examples of this cancer. THey are all fine.
YOur son will be too. HOlly
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
Thank you for the encouragement, Holly. It is so like you to find a way to reassure me, when I was trying to reassure you.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
Well no email. I am a little disappointed, but I all in all I am just a little curious. I have to remember I am not dealing with a logical man here. His time goes at a different pace, and I have had too much + contact since November to not expect a step backwards. No reaction from me. This is easy to do. Just have a good week. By the way, my students are wild and ornery today. We just roll our eyes, disapprove alot and hold on for dear life. Thursday afternoon, I am free for 10 days. I am going to Alabama to Gulf Shores. I am so looking forward to it.
If you are a parent of a school age child, going into spring break, Good Luck. They are all out of sorts this week!!!!!!!!!
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
You can tell without looking at a calendar when school breaks are getting close. The closer they get the more wound up the students get. That is even true for the older kids.
Just an observation.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
3 days ago we watched a 5th grade performance over at the high school. One of my little darlings found a piece of ABC gum on the floor. By the time I noticed the commotion, she has spread it all over the palms of both her hands and stuck them together as in prayer. This was also her first bus ride, and the little booger could not use her hands to aid her stair climb into the bus. We were going back to school for lunch and she had ordered PBand J. How was she going to eat? I was planning rubber gloves, adult size for a 5 year old.......
What gets into them?
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
