Hey OL, Wish I had more time, or better yet, something better to say. Jeez, I don't know about the paper. Sounds like some of the childishness that MLCers are said to go through. They apparently get pretty crazy.
Maybe you could ask for more details? What does verbally separated mean? You aren't allowed to talk to her? What about comments like, "your pants are on fire" or "the kitchen is radioactive, don't go in there?".
I don't think signing it or not will make much difference, IMHO. WTF? Crazy.
Stick to the plan, like it sounds like you are. No R talk. Detach. Etc. You've got the bed and she has the couch? That sounds positive to me, even if it's not permanent.
Hang in there, friend. I hope to have more time tomorrow to read and write with you.
Don't ask yourself what it means when she says you're still a part of her. Nothing will make sense. Have hope, but don't hang that hope on her or what she says or does. As they say here, believe nothing she says and only half of what she does (I never knew which half).
Hows the GALing coming? Are you finding time to take care of yourself, make yourself happy? Are you finding some detachment and strenght? Even if you only find it for 10 minutes in the day, work on finding that spot where you are strong, in control, and have let go of what you can't control. It's damn hard. Working on it will give you something to do.
ttyl. Luck.
M45, W45,S15, D10, Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06, finally ILY 9/07 last thread
