I know all of this sucks. You're right he should be ashamed of himself, but he probably isn't (at least not now), maybe someday. Do you know how good or not he was with his first wife financially? It might give you an indication of what you expect, then again it might not mean a bloody thing. I know he's Captain-Insane-o right now, but most of us behave in fairly predictable patterns throughout our lives.
