I am also not emotionally HSP being that I am teflon coated. I LOVE debates, conflicts, arguments, etc. Sarcasm is one of my favorite ways to communicate.
Sounds like cac4. He's not an emotional HSP either. Don't forget, you may share the same Enneagram type. However, the difference between you and cac4 is that you had a healthy childhood environment and he did not.
That is also why I am not HSP in the way Lillie is.
You could never be an HSP like Lillie or me because you are not a type 4.
One of my "issues" is a fear of performing. Kind of a problem when you are a music major. The fear of performing comes from the combination of my personality type AND the fact that I'm an HSP. In contrast, cac4 never had these performance fears that I did (not to say he didn't get nervous as anyone might). The difference here is the personality type. So, when you consider personality type, HSP/non-HSP, and attachment style combined, there are a LOT of possibilities.
